On the other hand...I never suspected a thing during my H's lengthy affair. I don't think anything like that is going on now but how could anyone who has been through something like that not be concerned when their spouse works 30 hours over the two day weekend coming home at 2a? When I call him, he is usually there but he never missed one of my calls then either.
DB says concentrate on the relationship--forget any thought of an ow. I have plenty to work on with myself--I've gained weight, am not happy with my activities, am anxious a lot. I'm going to the gym regularly, looking into a potentially new career (my first love, art) and at the same time considering resumming my old career.
