"Men will spend their health getting wealth; then, gladly pay all they have earned to get health back."
Sad, but very true in the case of a workaholic spouse. I was married to a workaholic who failed to understand the importance of balance. He focused only on moving to the top of the ladder only to find that he was not happy once he got there.
I do not know of anyone, when reaching the end of their life and expressing regrets, wishes that they had spent more time at work.
Does your husband have any healthy hobbies that you can encourage him to develop? I know it is very frustrating to try and reach a workaholic. Can you include relaxing weekend getaways in your schedule?