You know, I REALLY don't like your wife much. Sorry Andy, maybe if I knew her I'd see a different side, but she sounds like an all about herself person.(I know, she takes good care of the kids) Sorry-I just like you too much, and the women on here only wish they had husbands half as caring and sensitive as you. Now....don't go defending her..She hurt you, and that pisses me off. Sorry, I've had a glass of wine and I tend to say what I think when I drink. Gets me in trouble sometimes. TO tell you she's not attracted to you??? What does that mean? Sexually, intellectually, what? Is she attracted to to other men that you can tell? I know you say she has alot of men friends. Well-SORRY-that spells T-R-O-U-B-L-E Especially if she does not include you. You really do have the patience of Job-no kidding. Andy.....you are an attractive person and I've NEVER EVEN SEEN YOU!! That,you can beleive. Rachel M.