Drugs in your case are a good thing Andy. Recognizing the downward spiral and doing something before it really takes you down the drain fast is a very smart thing to do.
This not knowing how or what to do.... is why the counsellors and therapists were invented. Your W my H. Won't go, won't consider it, don't think they need it, but it's EXACTLY these situations that they were intended for! sigh.... Any chance she would reconsider? A good pro marriage type might help her facilitate and explore why she feels as she does. Tough job... this too shall pass. ( broken record again!)
