I do have something to feel guilty about, Rayanne. I know it may sound to people out there like she's trying to lay a guilt trip on me, but it's not true.
W doesn't want me to feel guilt, and she most certainly doesn't want to see it. It'll turn into a vicious circle of guilt and pressure to change.
She probably would have continued to sit on her own feelings if I hadn't blown up the other day. She tried as nicely as she could (it's certainly not an easy thing to put in "nice" terms) to explain why she feels the way she does. She also indicated that she doesn't want to feel that way.
I suppose I could feel mad at her if she'd struck back at me, but she showed empathy.
This thread is getting pretty whiny. I'm really sorry for that.
