You are pretty tired, huh? This emotional rollercoaster, along with simply not meeting needs you have by wife, is causing you to backslide. You two had an "emotional" talk...good...about time. Your wife probably was mildly surprised by this, I think also there is a level of respect that is again starting to surface within her for you and this marriage. This had to have happened for a reason. Now do what Laurie says, forgive and move on.
"W said that I must have considered filing."
Emotions again Andy. You've made your stance. It's your wife's turn now.
