Balance

[Jamesjohn]

Hey Andy! I think you did good, too.

A BIG, often neglected rule of DB'ing is to "ask for what you want". Sounds like you may have done just that.

IMHO, a person can't keep stuffing some of these things deep down inside of them. It ain't good for the R at all.

Sometimes, we owe it to our spouses to let them know what's going on inside of us. As long as it's not a personal attack against them, it's not only fair, but often necessary.

As Fee said, give her some time. It could be a good growth experience for your R.

Hang in there, my friend!!