Hi Andy - you did good ok? It may not have been pretty on either side but it's not all on you. One thing I noticed pretty quickly once I got less emotionally involved in my drama was that we were both pretty shakey on our feet.

Also from experience...It was the times like these that seemed to foster the most actual growth. In no way is that a reason to instigate and harrass and pummel...but this is totally different from that.

I think I get what you tried to explain. Like you said, the fact that she got is was what was important. Give her a little time to absorb it and for you to see how it sits with you too.

Thank you for the update. Hang in there. We're thinking of ya.