Andy:
You say she does what she wants and when that includes you, you get a babysitter. How about approaching her more, flirty, sexy, romantic...to lighten the mood and stress you feel from everyday life and your son? What is she seeking that you can still give her? I think that is why there is a rut...and this is not BAD!!!! How do you create the dance so that she dances only with you more and more?

Nicole [Wink]