Once again, a example that again points out how similar the dynamics of our situations. I to, feel like I'm in a vicious cycle of wanting to say something about my desires, but not wanting to force something that may be against hers. I don't want to pressure her and risk having her look elsewhere for "more agreeable" companionship. Never the less, the things I want to say need saying.
Finding the balance it the key, knowing how hard to push, how far to go, how to read when it's ok.
You spoke to me when you mention that W may think you mad because you are usually sad when you bring stuff up. I do that. Hadn't really noticed, but it's there. So an emotion, a negative emotion, gets projected. Hmmm. Gotta watch that.
