Another way to become unstuck is to simply stop doing all the things you are doing to maintain your marriage. Start small. For instance, if you are mopping the floor every day just because that is MsHD's preference and you would be okay with once a week, switch to mopping once a week. This way you will start gaining some of the benefits of being single while staying married. Why are you babytending every night while your wife goes out walking? Hire a sitter a couple nights a week and do something fun for you etc. etc. etc. Scale back your efforts or contributions to the marriage to the point that YOU think is equitable.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
