Quote: she usually reacts badly to something like this, calling it "pressure."
Yep, that sounds familiar. "Pressure" is a universal LD codeword, meaning "having a sex drive." I recently got "a little handsy" as you put it, after a month or two with no action, or even talk about action. I then got a lecture about how much pressure she feels. Yikes! Like I said, I hadn't mentioned sex in at least a month, so I'm not sure who was applying the pressure.....