Lou: I offered to delete the post last night, and she said no, that people will then wonder what was going on in the Hairdog house. It's the delusions talking.

I told her that I didn't want to have anything to do with the camera, even though she had asked me during the vacation to take as many pics as I wanted. She protested, saying that I was overreacting. I said that I didn't want to be responsible for anything that might go wrong with the camera, so I felt better just drawing a bright line between me and it. She said it always has to be "black or white" with me.

BTW: "Whatever" only works to inflame the situation.

Oh, and another BTW: the "initiate with confidence" thread relates to all of this in a couple of ways. First, checking with her about every assumption I might make about her seems absolutely inconsistent with becoming confident in any dealing with her. Second, I'd rather stick needles in my eyes than attempt to ML with her right now. I have zero desire for her.

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