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But then why spoon with you, naked?


Well, it feels good-- the way it feels good to have warm bodily contact with anyone, even your dog, or a baby or something. Sadly, my bf has turned naked spooning into a non-sexual activity for me. When we do it, I like it, it feels good and cuddly, but I have no inclination to do any more. Even when I feel a bit of an E (and usually there's no more than that), I have NO inclination to carry the activity any further. If he would show ANY desire at ALL-- even a little bit, I know it would light my pilot light. He never shows desire... he's affectionate, but never sexual. I know... I sound like CeMar.

"Why ask why?" The same reason people climb Mt. Everest... because they're stupid, have time on their hands, and love to suffer?... no no no-- that's not right... oh yeah: because it's THERE.