OK, Lillie -- I'LL say it then: THEY AIN'T NORMAL!
I mean, if someone wants to be totally asexual, that I can almost understand. But then why spoon with you, naked? Why would HD's wife want him to be assertive, only to push him away? Why would my wife want me to consider her "sexy", and wear sexy clothes, but not want to actually have sex with me?
