Quote: Here is my take on what your wife is saying to you.... she is like most wives or significant others, in the end she wants to be desired and loved by you, even if she doesn't have the sexual desire for you her recent comments about wanting you to initiate confidently simply mean she wants you to keep on, keeping on, even if she rejects you and doesn't feel like it, simply because most women in the end want to feel loved and desired.
She wants me to find her desireable, and to WANT to have sex with her. She just doesn't want to actually have SEX WITH ME be a part of that equation.
How are guys like HD supposed to respond to:
-- a woman who wants to be desired, but doesn't want to have to do anything about it?
-- a woman who wants you to be confident, but then does everything she can to kill your confidence?
-- wants you to "initiate with confidence," but then tells you repeatedly that she finds such male traits and behaviors to be abhorrent?
Man, they say WOMEN are confused? Men don't know WHAT you want from us.
