Maybe the answer right now is to not fark her brains out. But the answer at least is to tell her how you feel? Why is it you have become so scared of her? What is the worst that can happen by you speaking at least the truth to her? By hiding your true emotions right now this cycle will never stop. Until you stand up to her you will be like this even 5 years down the road. Meanwhile the rsentment and anger is only going to build up more and more. Pretty soon maybe you will even grow to hate her.
Yell at her tell you are so damned confused by her no's, non sexual interest, then sexual interest, then intiate confident statements. Hold her to it to explain what the heck she means. Well, maybe not yell but darn HD you have got to do something. Your wife pushes you around like you were some teenage boy.
