Happy birthday. There are a lot of us getting older these days!! My B'day is next Tuesday. H asked me this morning for ideas of what I'd like for my B'day. It's nice to know he's thinking about me -- although, since his B'day is 3 days after mine, perhaps it's just really easy for him to remember mine. Okay, that's not fair to him. He's never forgotten ANY special occasion.
I've read that quote of Michele's you posted above before. I found it very encouraging. I know I have work to do to bring back my love fully for my H also. I know I've felt I didn't love him in the past. Michele is right on in her statement about love being a decision. A couple of months ago I decided to stop dwelling on the A - it was killing my love for my H. That was a major decision. Since then, I've done the very things she spoke about in order to fan that spark of love back into flames. It's working. And when I think about it, my H is doing the very same things. I think we're on the right track. When I get a chance, I'll post over on my thread what went on at MC last week.
Again, Happy Birthday. I hope your B'day wish comes true.
