Lou, I read the Dobson article and agree that detachment works. Hey, that's basically what got her to say that she'll have sex, but that I have to initiate. I agree that letting her know that, just because the ball's in my court doesn't mean that I have to play, is important, too. I guess the unfortunate thing is that, I have been playing the detachment game for so long that, I just don't have a lot of interest in her right now. Oh sure, that could change, but without some show of interest on her part, I'm not likely to put my neck on the block and hand her the axe.
