Quote: you all know my never to be realized fantasy
That's YOUR choice. Heck, Chrome, does she have any hint of this fantasy of yours? Other than being receptive to it, what does she have to do to make it happen? Talk to her about your hopes, your dreams, and yes your fantasies...with the fantasies, preface it with an "I'm not expecting you to do this, but this has been a fantasy of mine, I'm just sharing this with you to let you have more of an inside look of me". Let her know too that some fantasies are better left unfulfilled. Could be that her fantasy is to be taken the same way but you just haven't put out the vibes that make her believe it will ever happen, KWIM?