I so completely do understand that it's not the approach you are comfortable with (and yes I get the snoopy analogy as well). I guess though that I can see this as speaking her LL in a way....and she's telling you exactly what to say. No, the words don't comfortably flow from you...but if it's what works for her and it can possibly lead to what you are hoping for...why not try it?
If she pulls the metaphorical football out from under you then you call her on it. It would be a case of "I did EXACTLY what you asked of me and you still don't respond favorably. With this response you still expect me to always initiate? I don't think so...I'm not a glutton for punishment."
I'm sure you'll haveto get to the point though where you are willing to try it....but it would be a 180 for you....sexually speaking.
