Quote: What (out of curiosity) do you think the outcome might have been if you just hauled her over your shoulder
Answer: hernia. See, I told you I still had my sense of humor with my friends.
I don't know, GEL. That is so NOT my approach. But maybe I'll try it some day. I guess that my point is, the "green flag" with her is (to mix metaphors between NASCAR and Looney Tunes) more like the matador's red cape that is hiding the anvil. Come on, come on, you know you want it, BAM! Or, with apologies to the estate of Charles Shulz, it's like when Lucy holds the football and promises to Charlie Brown that she won't pull it away at the last minute. We all know what happens. I'm at the point where my personal integrity says "no."
And CeMar, we haven't been back to MC yet, although it's something we are still planning to do. Thanks for the empathy. Your point about her not taking the responsibility to bring her own desire to the table continues to confuse me. It truly is as if she is asexual.
