Man, how I can understand everything your going through. My wife shares so many traits with yours. One things I see that is very common is that there LD women are trying to solve the situation by becoming sexual for US! They just don't get it! To solve the situation, they must become sexual for themselves first. This is not about meeting the man's need for sex, it's all about creating a need for sex within themselves.
She is literally counting on YOU to provide HER desire, and man if you screw up in your approach, you are the one that suffers the consequences. She literally does not understand what is going on in her own head, but yet she expects you to show confidence in your interactions with her, assuming that YOU do know what is going on in her head! She will not take responsibility for turning herself on, she is making you do it, and us guys are the LEAST likely people to understand the process she must go through.
