Balance

ANS,
I don't know. H has changed so much that I don't really see much of anything the same about him.
I guess he's still basically kind and tender hearted. In some ways he's not acting like it, but one sees glimpses of it through the heavy wall he's thrown up. Is that what you mean?

I wouldn't say I had changed much, but H would disagree.

By the way, The reference to Phoenix's friend and myself as "Babeheads" refers to a group we both like, "Four Bitchin' Babes". Just wanted to clarify that. When I read back I kinda decided that that could be misconstrued.

bluedogg,
Wish that concept was mine rather than borrowed from an unknown source. I liked it though.
Good luck connecting with your STBX.

rayanne