You know Rayanne, that's actually a definition for soulmate that I could swallow and not yak up [Big Grin] . It makes total sense to me and sounds like something my bestest gf (of the 4BB's fame) would say.

Cause otherwise, to me we have certain groups that we're attracted to and we're part of certain groups that others are. That explains why people will end one R and start another only to pick up where they left off in the last one. Or they'll pick someone who looks a lot like the original but doesn't quite act like em.

As for what Andy said about the core being...I agree witht that too. The way you said it was pretty all encompassing. The only think I stress is that sometimes we cover our cores up really really good for a LONG time. And when we finally dig down to them...everyone's in for a big surprise [Big Grin] . Usually for the better.