Your reply is so spot on! Makes one wonder if they love you at all or are just going through the motions for whatever reason. If they don't love you or want to be with you, why can't they just tell you? Would make life so much simpler. Or, maybe they do love you, yet they are so lost or confused that they are just unable to.
Personally, I am sort of an eternal optimist. My needs are rarely met. I heard the words "I love you" once in the last six months. I do believe we both want things to work out and she is clearly the one who is not there 100%. Does that make sense. I am fully committed and want things to be ok for all the important reasons. Yet she lags behind....as you know, he/she who cares the least controls the situation...I am a little tired of "caring the most"...yet there are always little things that indicate all will be ok one day.
So I live, enjoy, work and play. Hopefully, life will come my way. gnight out there...