Lilly
Thats the problem H never had a father he was just treated badly in the foster homes. Yelled at,treated like a slave for the people to get things done around their homes. Grass, snow etc.

Same sitch. S(12) doesnt have any respect for his dad or any memories. H is a good student and when I think back about last summer the two of them and all of us are in a much better postion.

H and I sat outside last night. S kept coming out to tell D the hockey score. H said do you mind if I go in and watch the game. I said no as long as you are going to go in to create memories for your son. I finished BBQ went in and listened to S asking questions and H answering. H is a smart man about life he reads everything he can get his hands on. I have told him he has so much to share S in like a sponge.

Lily what did the C mean about negotiations with H and S relationship. You are already in the thick of teenagehood. I would be interested to know more to tackle the pitfalls ahead.

Thanks in advance Loretta [Smile]