Hi Everyone,
I really want to work on selfish H around creating memories.

Any ideas would be greatly appreciated.

I worked really hard DBing and H came home I guess I should be satisfied with that. He is here in the house working hard again fixing home. But he is not creating any memories with children girl(14)and boy (12). Great kids. I dont see any bond with them and their father. He never takes them anywhere, he expects them to work hard like he does or he is dissatisfied with them.

Last night I was watching son out the back tieing up brush. I thought he did a great job. H got after him he should have known better to make sure they measured 3 feet lengths. I told him that wasnt part of the instructions he said I should have known better I have been doing this for years.

Well he made me mad.

I went down to talk with him. Our friend is waiting on news of his sons cancer 15 years old howe advanced it is. I made a comment to H one person is waiting for news of son and another person him is worried more about what the garbage man is going to think than how his son feels. I guess I could relate it to worry about friends son but H does this alot of times with us. He sets up little problems so we will get mad and leave him alone.

Any ideas getting tired of being pleasant and wonderful all the time with little in return. Thanks in advance Loretta [Confused]