I'm kinda in agreement with Smurf. She's been enjoying her life very much without having to lose out on anything. So fine - if she doesn't want you anymore - perhaps it's time to move on - for HER to move on.

It can still happen without you guys living in the same house. Or not - it's so hard to make these decisions. All I know - is I don't think one should be "dating" and having all the privileges of marriage like nothing has happened. And I don't consider that to be DBing by being a doormat. If they wish to date....ok.......bye bye.

Harsh as it seems - something has to snap into place for you or you'll be a complete basket case IWB.

I think of you often - you're in my prayers friend!

brue

I'm alive, I'm happy - why shouldn't I tell the world I've got my head screwed back on just fine.
Life is good for the Brue!