It sounds like you are handling the situation a lot better than in the past. One thing that time has taught us is that we need to take care of ourselves first and foremost. If it is God's will that our spouses come around, so be it. But we must also accept that the future may hold a different outcome for us. Either way, we must go on.
Your W sounds like she is still confused, but not pushing you away totally. Your greatest ally at this time is patience. In the beginning, we never thought we could be this strong, or patient. Use it to your advantage. You will get stronger as time goes on. Remember, take care of Ken first. Everything else will fall into place.
PoohBear
Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure.
