I hope I didn't imply that you were going to violate your M vows. I just know that we sometimes lose our feelings for our spouse because of their current behavior.
Been there:
quote:Originally posted by ANS 09-11-2001 10:19 AM onAndy's Story: This morning, I awoke at 4AM. I was TOTALLY devoid of feeling for W. I'm not talking about loving detachment either. I had no affection, no love, no resentment. NADA! I felt cold. Emotionless. I've never - not in the lowest of times felt like this.
DBing is all about improving yourself. I don't consider becoming an emotionless automaton to be self-improvement.
Have a happy 4th yourself. In my case, it's the 1st (Canada Day)