let me hear this correctly. I should be working on getting my own life as full and fun as possible without intentionally including my H. doing things with friends, hobbies, interests, etc. Acting happy with these things.Ignoring the A. Not bringing up any relational talk. do I ever invite his along with on my journey? or do I wait to see if he asks to come along? it is so hard to have been a couple for 25 years and then think of everything as a single unit.