I am so sorry you are here! I know just how you feel. You want to trust him, but he consistently shows you that he is able to lie or avoid the truth. My H just Friday told me again that he will "try not to ever call OW" apparetnly he is not good at trying. I saw on his office phone that his last number called was hers and she has called 2 times very recently. He is lying and does not seem to be bothered by it. This is such a form of disrespect to me. I just want and deserve the truth so I know what I am dealing with. Keep me posted on how you are doing. I do care.