I'm sitting here reading for the first time. Waiting for my H to come home from work. Work. Yeah right. I am so overwhelmed!! Lying should be his first name. He claims he wants to work things out. Claims he has stopped seeing the OW but I don't trust him at all... Snooping is how I have discovered everything. For years he has denied. But I knew. I have confronted & asked and he has continued to lie and tell me that it is no one. Liar!! Anyway... so again after 16 years of marriage I'm sitting here trying to figure out what to do. He wants to see a therapist. Went to see a minister. He didn't like it. Now what? My kids mean everything to the both of us. Don't know if he's staying because of them or because of our marraige. He claims he doesn't want to leave. Can't trust him... He says he is not seeing OW anymore. If I had not busted him he would still be seeing her. He is such an idiot. I know everything. I am so sad...
