I usually post on newcomers and posted this there. I thought I should also post it here. I hope some of you have some good advice. Been gone for some time working on DBing and trying not get thrown from this wild rollercoaster. Well this morning W finally admitted to affair with OM. She said it has been going on since Jan., But she ended it 2 days ago and wants us to try to work things out. Finally hearing the truth that cofirms all of my past hunches is a great burden off my shoulders. Now I know the full truth, but it still hurts like H*LL and I know I am going to have a hard time dealing with the thought of her and one of my best friends together in an ongoing relationship. I know her honesty is a huge first step as well as her desire to reconcile. I love her and want things to work out but I don't know how i should approach working through my emotions and hurt about the affair. I don't want that memory to stand in our way but I'm afraid if I don't approach things in just the right way it may be a stumbling block. She says she still loves other man as a friend and considers him one ofher best friends.
