I plan on turning the other cheek at least until our anniversary (2 months). I had not snooped for a month and thought things were going well. NOT. We are interacting better than ever but she continues to "pursue" OM. I have confronted before and I think she has learned to "act" that OR is good to appease me. Her ability to lie is phenomenal. That is the part I can't deal with. She does it to avoid confrontation, puff herself up, avoid consequences, etc. I feel like I will be lied to the rest of my life.
She will promise nothing so I have a choice. Live in this world of deception or leave it behind. That is a tough one.
