Rayanne -- ONS = One Night Stand. Keep up, woman!!!
t, hey, no problem. No, you don't have to "get comfortable" with it. Didn't you already make this kind of thing a boundary issue? If not, it a good one. I've often (well, not too much lately) found myself simply telling W that I'm not comfortable with something she's proposed doing. Usually, that something has to do with some social event that includes OM. I quickly tell her how glad I am that she trusts ME enough to be able to tell me about it, but also that it just makes me uncomfortable. Then, you've got to drop it. It lets her know how you feel, it lets her know that she's pushing the limits of you tolerance, and by not forcing anything, it lets her know that you are not trying to control her, just let her know that it hurts you. Just a statement, no pressure, no judgement.
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