I am so pissed off at her. She called to ask if she could go to her friend's my ONS isn't pregnant celebration. This is a friend she met on match.com and those who know me know how I feel about that. She says his mother is even going to be there. I don't give a sh** who is going to be there. She has spent countless hours counseling this poor soul on the phone and e-mail. This will be the third time she is going to spend time with this guy on this issue. She claims complete innocence and I believe her but it is still bullsh** in my book. How does she expect me to not care about this stuff? She has three friends from match that she still talks to. She told me just yesterday that they are no big deal and why would she tell me about them if it was any different. Her hours are accounted for very well right now so I guess I believe her but I am not comfortable with it nor should I be. She also always drops this on me at the last minute. Man, am I pissed off. Why do we have such great times and have such passion and she still feels a need to spend time talking to these people. If I had "friends" like this she would lose her mind. She sees no problem with it and I don't see it changing. That leaves me to get comfortable with it. I just had a strong desire to let her know that this really bothers me. I neede her to understand exactly hoe I feel. It causes me a lot of insecurity. Not very good DBing but I don't understand her dual life. Her actions and comments say that she really likes what we have but I still feel like I am being shopped. Sorry for the rant and lesson on how not to DB. I guess I spent too much time on the "Infidelity" board today. I really should never go there because my W fits so many of the stereotypes there that it hurts my PMA big time. She seems like all the other WAW with OM. I have some serious work to do yet and can thank my lucky stars that I have looks and money on my side or her materialism would have had her jumping ship a long time ago. I guess I didn't do a very good job of being the strong, secure guy today. We are too far into the rebuilding stage for it to not bother me. I know I should have said "go have a good time" but I can't hide my true feelings. Even if I would have said it she would have seen through it.