Thanks a bunch Andy for your perspective. I sure did panic (only here, not in front of her!). She has made great progress, truly trying and I didn't do all the things I could have (can you say perfectionist). You and the rest of my support staff told me the same thing, RELAX.
We worked outside last night for a long time and then had a late dinner and nice talk. She even complimented my hardwork. I was going to do some "maintenance" things but I know she likes to see "new projects" done so that is what I did. The maintenance things can be done some other time. It is so easy to just do what she wants sometimes instead of what I think "should be done". Big baby step, she put up our new family pictures finally. That was one of the things that was a benchmark for me of where our R stood. What a roller coaster I let myself be on, huh. Hopefully, I will mellow with age and gain more "wisdom". Sure will make life easier.
Looking to keep the "hiccups" to a minimum going forward. Thanks to you I will react better when it happens. Have a great weekend.
