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And, don't jump to conclusions about how much attention DBers would recommend that you give her.

In a lot of cases, DBers have been smothering their spouses. In those cases, they have to back way off.

But, the prime directive of DB is "Do more of what works, and less of what doesn't".

It's not cookie cutter DBing. You have to tailor what you do to what works for you.

If showering attention on her works, then by all means go for it.

BTW, I'm very sorry to hear about your friend's h.

Andy