Spending a lot of time together is good. 99% positive? How many of us (even those with great R’s) can say that? Keep it up!
quote:Originally posted by tbone: One thing that will take a lot of work is how enthused she is to spend time with other people. She simply seems more enthused with them than me. I probably do the same thing to her and I am just more sensitive to it now. Can you tell that I think too much?
Yeah. I still struggle with that one. A lot! We just have to remember that peoples’ actions don’t necessarily reflect their true feelings. Think of all of the things that your W misinterpreted, and that caused you to come to this BB. Boggles the mind, doesn’t it?
Appearance can be very deceiving.
So, don’t sweat it. Look at the bright side. Though she doesn’t show as much enthusiasm as you’d like, she most certainly likes to be with you. Otherwise, she wouldn’t spend a lot of time with you, and you wouldn’t feel like it’s 99% positive if she didn’t feel the same.
BTW, you most certainly are NOT stupid. You managed to make your way over to the piecing forum didn’t you?
