People avoid OR talks because they're so heavy and tend to turn into finger-pointing exercises.
You could easily slip into, "Y'see? You're doing exactly what you used to complain about!"... "Oh yeah?"... "Yeah. And furthermore...."
But when you can both see the irony, you're communicating, learning about each other. And, no animosity.
Humour makes you feel good, too. Anything that makes (both of you) feel good when you're together is good for your R.
quote:Originally posted by tbone : On my way home to be strong, confident, caring and charming. That sounds even harder than walking and chewing gum at the same time.
