Old Newcomer, New to Piecing

[ANS]

I think your gut has served you well so far.

Throughout my entire ordeal, my basic technique was to become the person that my inflated ego thought I already was.

I thought I was a great H, friend, lover, etc. etc. etc. When I found out that I was none of this, it gave me a lot of ammo for 180s.

You've done your 180's too, so now it's time to just stick with them. Go with the flow. Keep being the best H, friend, lover that you can.

That's who she fell in love with, and that's who she's falling in love with all over again.

This is great!

Andy