It's funny how everyone who moves themselves over here is so hesetant. There are so many threads with titles like "Not sure if I should be here" (Ultrea), or "I THINK the divorce is busted" (treesa2), or "I just wonder if I belong in this section." (LonelyAtNight).
The idea you get from this is that we're never quite sure when things can go south on us.
The moral of the story is that DBing does not end when we get our spouse "back".
So. Where does that leave you? What do you do now?
You're sorta right when you say nothing. What you've done so far has gotten you this far, so it's definately not the time to stir the pot.
But, read some more threads - particularly in the piecing forum, and perhaps some success stories.
Your W won't be ready to jump into Relationship renovations right away, but as things continue to improve, she'll want to participate.
Just show her by example what it is to be a great spouse. It'll rub off.
