Glad to be here. Here's my "newcomer" thread title:
"I have been crushed, help me please"
I moved here because my W seems to be back to our R but I am not sure what to do from here. She was typical WAW saying "I don't love you", pursueing OM, EA's but no PA's. I was at my limit and confronted her and told her what my feelings were. It got very tough for a couple of days and I was pretty sure she was going to leave. The opposite happened and we are moving forward. Go figure. I have been very laid back and just enjoying our good times. No ILY's, no OR talks, etc.
What do I do now? From what I have seen on this board, probably nothing. I will do that but I am concerned that the R will simply go bad again without more positive changes. What do you all think? I haven't heard ILY from her in 19 mo and I won't be comfortable until she is to that point.