Thanks Ble Ed.. and Lily (I take it the was because you too believed I did a good thing here?)
Glad I could help Dawg. ( IT's SO nice to see you here more often again!)
H is turning 50 this year... 40 was hell I don't have a clue what 50 will bring, and HIS dad is almost 85 or 86 I believe. Same thing... he ain't gonna change and whether or not H ever realizes HOW he behaves and WHAT he does, is most certainly not for me to get into it with him.
the NEW CALM and ( probably half soused) tree ON TOP I hope for 100!