You and I met (cyberly) as you were about to start the slow dance. I never went back through your older threads until now, though I guess I had a pretty good idea what was happening from our (oh too few) face to face meetings.
Yes indeed, you have come a long way!
As I read your older threads, a couple of things struck me.
Early on, you diagnosed your H with MLC. I can’t argue that he had (still has?) all the symptoms, but as you started to DB, even your daughters thought you were getting pretty squirrelly. It struck me that DBing has a large element of fighting fire with fire. How’s your MLC going, tree? Mine’s thriving
So, we carry on DBing and our spouse starts to wonder if our bodies have been taken over by aliens. They start to put inordinate significance on off hand comments that we made such as, “I’ll divorce you.” We don’t even remember such insignificant remarks, but through their MLC fog, it seems important somehow.
Well, that’s their problem, isn’t it? We’re not going to get sucked into their melodrama!
There were times (as you’ll remember) when I found myself defending W on my threads. She had said some apparently heartless things to me and some DBers kept wondering how she could treat such a “great guy” like that.
Well, I guess our spouses can say the wrong thing sometimes, too.
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