My goodness Tree Bark and look all coming out of the woodwork.... ( groan... bad metaphors.. but hey!)

Thanks folks... Nice to see YOU ALL!!! Betty... check yr email honey! [Big Grin]

R8ch... I see ya checkin on hotmail and will have to IM you... I tend not to "pursue" if I see someone on... I wait til they ping me first...
[Eek!] did I just give something away....

I guess I might need to be a little more assertive. heehee

Stalks... you are there... but not always there ya know???

I/We seem to be moving forward thanks to Michele's methods, my C, and own sense of perserverance and patience.. (Blacksheep you listening!!!) Never mind that I am now thinking that perhaps my H really wanted to leave he just doesn't know how else to "fix" the problems. Without the DB strategies and all I've learned who knows where I'd be - in fact where we'd all be - today.

Not that I feel at all successful .... yet.... BUT most importantly you guys are ALL fantastic... the coaching and help we get here.is critical to our sanity and day to day getting through this... it's friendship - which those who haven't done this or gone through it... don't "get" You guys are all PALS!!!

keep the faith.. a la TBear... and I am no where near done yet... keep coming back!

To the Canadians... Happy Long weekend and Canada Day folks! [Big Grin]