That statement might sound facetious, but it’s not. Do you realize what you’ve just posted?
Firstly…
quote:Originally posted by treesa2: So H is working at prying out of me what is bothering me…
D’ya think that maybe… Just maybe, he cares about your feelings????
Secondly…
quote:Originally posted by treesa2: I am not saying or thinking to any of my work buddies - pass the bread and do you want to hit the sack with me baby...
Neither is he! If he had any thoughts along this line, he’d avoid “prying” like the plague. If he even had a clue that you were jealous… if there was any reason for you to be jealous, how do you think he would have reacted? It wouldn’t have been you who clammed up. He’d retreat so fast the only thing you’d see would be his smoke trail!
quote:Originally posted by treesa2: H of course now tip toeing around me as I try and regroup. This might just be OR time.... because the bottom line is... I am tired of king of being in purgatory... that limbo land... where yeah Andy she is probably out of his mind... but who knows ya know... and Ya ... he has me in the sack, but there are days when I feel more like a whore than a wife... and then there are days most of them, when I think... yep.. we are gonna make it. But who knows... because he nevers says nuttin! sigh...
Of course, he’s tiptoeing now. He’s totally clueless as to what’s bothering you. Something’s wrong (and he cares about it), but he doesn’t know what it is, so he just tries not to do anything to make things worse.
I don’t think it’s OR-talk time for you, tree. You just got a wealth of information about what he’s thinking (or not thinking about) without having to drag this all out.
He never says nuttin’ verbally, but I think he’s spoken volumes from his actions.
quote:Originally posted by treesa2: So... HOW do I fix this stupid little mess I have managed to get myself into.
Do nothing. You’re not in a mess at all. Just let it pass.
