Aye yi yi...take a deep breath (just like I tell my 3 year old).
Tough situation...not sure what to tell you. If you think you can have an honest discussion, I guess you could tell him your fears. Not sure if that's the right thing to do right now or not.
Have to be careful with what you say...cause if he thinks you've gone off the deep end (by him telling you his plans) then maybe next time he won't want to cause you any stress and will not say anything.
